“No form of sex is more noble or more degrading than another. None will pretend to translate a healthy mind, or a fucked up childhood, or whatever meaning you might pull out of it.  Removing that type of judgment, in my opinion, democratizes sex into a mere search for pleasure, which is universal and intrinsically human. If only it were that easy, people would continuously explore their sexual identity, and we wouldn’t be so behind in understanding sexual orientation and fetish expression, even gender. Unfortunately it’s not that easy, most of us being shaped and shamed into building a narrow and normative identity around our sex lives. Sexual behavior is just another form of human behavior, and by extension it is as varied and diverse and humanity itself.”
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